Set Free to Give

Guest Speaker - Ps David Doery2025-10-26
Message Summary

What if the thing holding you back from generosity isn't a lack of money — but a lack of freedom? In this powerful message, Ps David Doery takes us into the story of Zacchaeus, a man who encountered Jesus and was so transformed that extravagant giving became his immediate response. When we truly understand what it means to be a new creation in Christ, generosity stops being an obligation and starts becoming an overflow. This sermon unpacks what it looks like to be set free — from fear, from greed, from scarcity thinking — and to live as people who give cheerfully, lavishly, and with eternal purpose.

Discussion Guide

Talk about it

Youth6 questions

This sermon is deeply relevant for you, because the world you're growing up in constantly tells you that having more — more followers, more stuff, more status — is what makes you matter. Zacchaeus had all of that and was still empty. When he met Jesus, his whole identity shifted, and generosity became natural. As a young person, you're right at the start of forming your habits and values around money and giving. This is the perfect time to build a life that's defined by freedom and generosity, not by accumulation.

  1. Zacchaeus was rich but still desperate to see Jesus — what does that tell you about what money can and can't give you?
  2. Have you ever experienced the feeling of giving something (time, money, a gift) and feeling really good about it? What was that like?
  3. What are some ways teenagers specifically can practise generosity — beyond just money?
  4. Jesus called Zacchaeus by name before he'd done anything to earn it. How does it feel to know Jesus knows you like that?
  5. What's one 'treasure' (something you value a lot) that you could hold more loosely this week?
  6. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says you're a 'new creation' in Christ. What's one 'old' habit or mindset about money or giving that you'd like to leave behind?
Young Adults6 questions

Your twenties and thirties are often the years when financial pressure feels most intense — rent, HECS debt, entry-level wages, trying to save a deposit in one of the most expensive housing markets in the world. It can be really hard to think about generosity when you feel like you're barely keeping your head above water. But this sermon challenges that scarcity mindset directly. The question isn't whether you have enough to give — it's whether you trust God enough to give from what you do have. Building generous habits now, before you have 'enough', shapes the kind of person you'll be for the rest of your life.

  1. How do the financial pressures of your season of life (rent, debt, career uncertainty) affect your ability to think about generosity?
  2. Paul says God loves a 'cheerful giver' — not a dutiful or guilty one. What would it look like for your giving to feel more like joy than obligation?
  3. Are there non-financial ways you're already practising generosity (time, skills, hospitality)? How do those feel compared to financial giving?
  4. Zacchaeus' encounter with Jesus changed his whole value system overnight. Has there been a moment in your faith journey that shifted how you think about money?
  5. Matthew 6 warns about where your 'treasure' is anchoring your heart. Where do you feel most anchored right now — and is it where you want to be?
  6. What's one practical, sustainable step you could take this month to grow in generosity?
Families6 questions

One of the greatest gifts you can give your children isn't financial security — it's a generous spirit. Families are one of the most powerful incubators of values, and the habits your kids see at home around money, giving, and generosity will shape them for life. This sermon is an invitation to make generosity a family culture, not just a personal discipline. Whether that's talking openly about giving, involving kids in decisions about who to bless, or modelling an open-handed approach to your home and resources, the Zacchaeus story shows that transformation is always visible — and always contagious.

  1. How do you currently talk about money and giving with your kids? Is it something your family discusses openly?
  2. Zacchaeus' transformation was immediate and practical — he gave half his wealth away. What's a practical, tangible act of family generosity you could do together this month?
  3. How do you model contentment and trust in God's provision for your children, especially when finances are tight?
  4. Genesis 12 says God's people are blessed to be a blessing. What does it look like for your family to be a blessing to your street, school, or community?
  5. Are there ways your home could be more 'open' — through hospitality, sharing resources, or welcoming people in need?
  6. What's one money habit or value you want to intentionally pass on to your children?
Singles6 questions

Being single often means you have a unique kind of freedom — fewer dependants, more flexibility, and the ability to make giving decisions quickly and personally. At the same time, it can come with its own financial pressures and the temptation to spend on yourself simply because there's no one else to think about. This sermon is an invitation to lean into the freedom you have and to discover that generosity — whether of money, time, or presence — is one of the richest ways to live. Your life as an individual is not a lesser version of the 'family' life; it's a unique platform for generosity and impact.

  1. What are the unique opportunities for generosity that your season of singleness gives you, that might be harder in other life stages?
  2. Do you ever feel pressure (internal or external) to accumulate — a home, savings, possessions — before you allow yourself to be generous? Where does that pressure come from?
  3. Proverbs 22:9 says the generous person is blessed. Can you think of a time generosity unexpectedly came back to you in some form?
  4. How do you practise the kind of 'open-handed' living this sermon describes in your everyday, individual life?
  5. John 4:35 talks about looking up and seeing the harvest around you. What 'fields' in your immediate world are ripe for generosity right now?
  6. What would it look like to make generosity a core part of your personal identity — not just an occasional act?
Men6 questions

For many men, money is deeply tied to identity — to providing, to security, to being in control. That's not inherently wrong, but it can quietly become a form of bondage. Zacchaeus is a powerful picture of a man whose whole sense of worth was bound up in what he had accumulated, until Jesus dismantled it with a single conversation. This sermon calls men to a different kind of strength — the strength to hold resources loosely, to lead generously at home and in the community, and to build a legacy that outlasts a bank balance.

  1. Be honest: how much does your financial situation affect your sense of worth or security as a man? Where does that come from?
  2. Paul tells Timothy to instruct the wealthy to be 'rich in good deeds' — not just financially rich. What does 'rich in good deeds' look like for you practically?
  3. How are you leading your household (or yourself, if you're single) in the area of generosity? Is it something you're intentional about?
  4. Zacchaeus made a public, specific, costly commitment to generosity. What would it look like for you to make a similarly concrete decision — not vague intention, but a real commitment?
  5. What fears or hesitations around giving do you need to name and surrender to God?
  6. 1 Timothy 6:19 talks about 'taking hold of the life that is truly life.' What would that look like for you in this season?
Women6 questions

Women are often the quiet engines of generosity in families, churches, and communities — giving time, energy, care, and resources in ways that rarely get acknowledged. This sermon is an affirmation and a challenge. An affirmation that what you already give matters deeply to God. And a challenge to examine whether fear or scarcity thinking is holding you back from the full, free, joyful generosity that Jesus modelled and invites you into. You are a new creation — and that new identity is the foundation for a generous, fearless way of living.

  1. In what ways are you already practising generosity that you might not even be recognising as such (time, care, hospitality, emotional presence)?
  2. Do you feel like generosity is something you get to choose, or something that's expected of you? How does that difference feel?
  3. 2 Corinthians 9:8 says God provides so that we can 'abound in every good work.' What good work do you feel equipped and called to right now?
  4. Zacchaeus encountered Jesus and was immediately transformed. Has there been a spiritual encounter that shifted how you think about your resources or your giving?
  5. What does it look like to hold the good things in your life — relationships, finances, home — with open hands rather than clenched fists?
  6. Who in your world might be impacted if you stepped more fully into generous living — and what's stopping you?
Connect Together6 questions

You bring something to this sermon that younger generations are still growing into: the long view. You've lived long enough to see the truth of what Ps David preached — that accumulating never satisfies, and that the moments of greatest meaning are almost always tied to giving. This sermon is both a celebration of what many of you have already practised across decades of faithful generosity, and an invitation to consider the legacy you're still building. The fields, as Jesus said, are ripe for harvest — and your wisdom, your resources, your presence, and your prayers are part of that harvest.

  1. Looking back over your life, what are the acts of generosity — whether giving or receiving — that stand out as defining moments?
  2. How has your understanding of money, possessions, and giving changed over the course of your faith journey?
  3. Zacchaeus was freed from his attachment to wealth through a personal encounter with Jesus. How has your ongoing relationship with Jesus continued to shape your grip on material things?
  4. Genesis 12 frames God's blessing as always being 'in order to bless others.' How do you see that pattern playing out in your own story?
  5. What wisdom about generous living would you most want to pass on to the next generation in this church?
  6. 1 Timothy 6:19 speaks of 'laying up treasure as a firm foundation for the coming age.' As you think about your legacy, what kind of foundation are you most focused on building?
New to Church?

Welcome — we're really glad you're here today. If some of the talk about giving or faith felt new or unfamiliar, that's completely okay. Today's message was really about freedom — the kind of inner freedom that comes when we experience genuine love and acceptance. The story of Zacchaeus (from the Gospel of Luke in the Bible) is about a man who was wealthy on the outside but empty on the inside, until he had a real encounter with Jesus. That encounter changed everything about how he lived and how he related to others. Whether you're exploring faith for the first time or just checking things out, we hope you felt welcome today. Feel free to grab a coffee, chat with someone, or pick up one of our connection cards — no pressure, just an open door.

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