Faith on Fire

Ps Adrian2025-06-08
Message Summary

What do you do when your faith feels like it's running on empty? In 2 Timothy 1:5-7, Paul writes to a young pastor named Timothy who is struggling with timidity — and his words are just as alive today as they were then. Paul doesn't rebuke Timothy; he reminds him. He points him back to the faith that was already alive in him, passed down through generations, and then calls him to fan it into flame. This message from Ps Adrian is a powerful, personal challenge to stop waiting for the fire to return and start doing the work of stirring it back up — because God hasn't given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.

Discussion Guide

Talk about it

Youth5 questions

As a teenager, it can feel like faith is something that belongs to your parents or grandparents — something you've inherited but maybe haven't fully owned for yourself. This message is a challenge to step into a faith that is genuinely yours: not because it's expected of you, but because you've chosen it. Timothy was young, gifted, and called — and yet he was shrinking back out of fear. Sound familiar? God's word to him is the same word to you: you have been given power, love, and a sound mind. The fire is in you. Time to fan it.

  1. Do you feel like your faith is something you've personally chosen, or more something you've grown up around? What's the difference, and does it matter?
  2. What are the main things that make it hard to be open about your faith at school or with your friends?
  3. Paul says God hasn't given us a spirit of fear. What's one thing fear is currently stopping you from doing — in faith or in life generally?
  4. What does 'fanning the flame' actually look like for a teenager in your situation? What's one practical thing you could do this week?
  5. Is there someone in your life who has modelled genuine faith for you (like Lois and Eunice did for Timothy)? What have you learned from watching them?
Young Adults5 questions

Your twenties and thirties are full of pressure — figuring out career direction, navigating relationships, managing finances, and trying to build a life that actually means something. In all of that noise, faith can quietly take a back seat. This message is a timely reminder that the fire you felt earlier in your faith journey hasn't been taken from you — but it does require your active participation to keep it burning. Timothy was stepping into adult responsibility with fear and uncertainty, and Paul's words to him land right in the middle of the very real tensions young adults face today.

  1. In what areas of your life right now is fear the loudest voice — career, relationships, calling, something else? How is that affecting your faith?
  2. How do you personally 'fan the flame' in a season that's busy and demanding? What rhythms or habits have actually worked for you?
  3. Timothy had spiritual mentors who shaped him (Lois, Eunice, Paul). Do you have people like that in your life? If not, what's stopping you from pursuing those relationships?
  4. Paul reminds Timothy of who he is before he challenges him. Is there someone in your world who needs that kind of reminder right now? How could you offer it?
  5. What would it look like to integrate your faith more genuinely into your everyday adult life — not just at church, but at work, in friendships, in how you make decisions?
Families5 questions

One of the most striking things in this passage is the mention of Lois and Eunice — two women whose quiet, consistent faith became the foundation for Timothy's own. As parents and families, you are doing the same thing every day, whether you realise it or not. Your children and grandchildren are watching the way you handle hardship, the way you talk about God, the way you pray (or don't), the way you treat others. This message is both an encouragement and a gentle challenge: the faith being formed in your home right now has a future. What kind of fire are you passing on?

  1. What does 'sincere faith' (v.5) look like in a family context? How do you model authentic, not just practised, faith at home?
  2. Are there spiritual habits or rhythms in your family that feel alive, and others that have gone a bit cold? What would it look like to fan the flame together as a family?
  3. How do you help your kids own their faith for themselves, rather than just inheriting yours — especially as they get older?
  4. Fear can affect families too — fear of the future, fear of failure as a parent, fear of what others think. How does 2 Timothy 1:7 speak into that?
  5. What's one thing you could do together as a family this week that would intentionally stir up faith — whether that's prayer, conversation, serving someone, or something else?
Singles5 questions

Living as a single person in today's world can come with its own brand of fear — fear of missing out, fear of the future, fear of being overlooked or misunderstood, even within the church. This passage is a personal, direct word: the gift of God is in *you*. Not in a future relationship, not in a different season of life — in you, right now. Timothy didn't need anything else to step into his calling; he just needed to be reminded of what he already had. The same is true for you. Your faith, your gifts, and your calling don't require a different life circumstance to be valid and fully alive.

  1. In what ways does your current season of life — being single — affect how you think about your faith or your calling?
  2. Paul identifies power, love, and a sound mind as gifts already given. Which of these three feels most present in your life right now, and which feels most depleted?
  3. What does community look like for you at the moment? Are there people in your life who stir you up spiritually (like Paul did for Timothy), or do you feel like you're doing faith mostly alone?
  4. Is fear a factor in how you're approaching this season of your life? What does it look like to actively refuse a 'spirit of fear' in your day-to-day decisions?
  5. What is one gift, passion, or calling that you've let go quiet because life has been full or fear has been loud? What would it look like to fan that back into flame?
Men5 questions

Timothy was in a leadership role but was pulling back — choosing safety over courage, allowing fear to govern his decisions. Paul's response isn't to shame him; it's to call him up. This message lands directly in the space that many men know well: the tension between what you know you're called to do and the fear or inertia that keeps you from doing it. Whether it's leadership at home, stepping up at work, being honest in your relationships, or taking your spiritual life more seriously — the challenge of 2 Timothy 1:6-7 is the same for you as it was for Timothy. Fan it. Step up. You've already been given what you need.

  1. Where in your life are you currently 'shrinking back' — at home, at work, in your faith, in a relationship? What's driving that?
  2. Paul says God has given us power, love, and a sound mind. As a man, which of these do you feel most confident in, and which do you most need to grow in?
  3. Are you currently investing in a younger man the way Paul invested in Timothy — through mentoring, friendship, or encouragement? What would that look like practically?
  4. What are the spiritual disciplines that genuinely keep your faith alive? Have any of them drifted recently? What would it take to get back to them?
  5. What does courageous, Spirit-filled manhood look like in your specific context — your workplace, your home, your community — this week?
Women5 questions

It's no coincidence that the first people Paul honours in this passage are two women — Lois and Eunice. Their sincere, faithful lives shaped one of the most significant figures in the early church. Often, women's faith is expressed quietly, in the background, without recognition — in the prayers whispered before school, the conversations over kitchen tables, the consistent presence that others take for granted. This message is an affirmation of that kind of faith — and an invitation to let it burn even brighter. You carry a gift. You carry a story. And you have been given a spirit not of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.

  1. How do you relate to Lois and Eunice — women whose faithful influence shaped someone else's faith in ways they may not have fully seen? Where do you see yourself doing that in your own life?
  2. What does 'sincere faith' look like for you in the everyday rhythms of your week — not on a Sunday morning, but on a Tuesday afternoon?
  3. Paul tells Timothy the spirit of fear doesn't come from God. What fears are most present for you right now, and how are they affecting how you live out your faith?
  4. What does it look like, practically, to fan the flame of your faith in this particular season of life?
  5. Is there another woman in your life who needs to be reminded — like Paul reminded Timothy — of who she is and what she carries? How could you be that voice for her?
Connect Together5 questions

Lois and Eunice may never have known the full impact of their faithfulness — but Paul did, and Timothy did, and through Timothy's ministry, the whole early church did. For those who have walked with God for many years, this passage is both a celebration and a commission. Your sincere faith has a history, and that history is not finished. The fire you have carried through decades of life — through hardship, through joy, through loss, through answered prayer — is a treasure the church desperately needs. This message is an invitation to keep fanning that flame, and to be deliberate about passing it on to those who are coming behind you.

  1. Looking back over your years of faith, who were your 'Lois and Eunice' — the people whose sincere faith shaped yours? What did they do that made the difference?
  2. Paul speaks of a 'sincere faith' — the Greek word suggests something without masks or pretence. What has life taught you about what genuine, unperformed faith actually looks like?
  3. In what ways are you currently investing your faith legacy into younger people around you — whether family, church, or community? What more might God be calling you to?
  4. Has there been a season in your life when the fire went low? What did God use to fan it back into flame? What wisdom from that season could you share with others?
  5. How does 2 Timothy 1:7 — power, love, and a sound mind — speak to where you are right now? Which of these three is most alive in you, and which might need fresh attention?
New to Church?

Welcome — we're really glad you're here today. This message is for anyone who has ever felt like their motivation, hope, or sense of purpose has gone a little flat. Using a letter written by an older man to his younger friend almost 2,000 years ago, Ps Adrian unpacks a simple but powerful idea: the fire that once burned in you isn't gone — it just needs to be stirred back up. Whether faith is brand new for you or something you're rediscovering, this is a warm and honest conversation about courage, identity, and what it looks like to live with real spiritual vitality. No background knowledge required — just come as you are.

Related Verses

2 Timothy 1:5

I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice and now, I am sure, dwells in you as well.

2 Timothy 1:6

For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands.

2 Timothy 1:7

For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.

Hebrews 10:24-25

And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.

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